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＋In recent years, mothers and fathers have a tendency to go after their children and grant their wishes, or buy everything they like. In my perspective, this is not a good method to take care of children, and it may trigger some adverse influences on the children when they grow up.

There are several reasons that explain why children cannot be raised by this strategy. Firstly, parents cannot follow their children the whole life. As long as their child has grown up, they will get older and die, or in an unfortunate situation, there is an accident happen that make the parents cannot take care of their children anymore. This means this parenting style can only take care of the children well and make them happy in their childhood and adolescent duration. When they get older and their parents leave, they are nothing but like a merge child who have to deal with all the difficulties in its life alone, which is nearly impossible.＋ The second reason is because of the economy of the family. If parents allow children to buy whatever they want without concerning about the budget or necessities, parents may do not have enough money to pay the bills. When they run out of money and cannot afford the children’ needs, their children may get angry, and their relationship will be ruined.＋Various impacts can be caused by this parenting style to grown-up children. The initial problem is that they may not take care of themselves and keeping depending on their parents despite their ages. Children will not be able to learn soft skills, such as cooking, taking care of their bodies and health, using expenditure thoroughly and beneficially, consider the thing you need and the thing you want, and so on. The loss of practical skills can make their lives harder when they go to work.＋ Moreover, if they face difficulties, they may not have the abilities to think carefully, stay calm, and give the right choice, because they have received help from their parents too much without learning anything. This will totally ruin the life of these children.＋

＋In conclusion, the method of raising children by buying and fulfilling everything the children ask is not a good strategy, since it can cause severe consequences to the children’ life.